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Make Your Haters Your Motivators

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Make Your Haters Your Motivators

Ever had someone put you down?  People tell you that you are not a very good player?  How did you respond?  Did you get into a verbal confrontation?  Did you start to believe the things that they said?

You are not alone.  Some of the best basketball players in history had people who doubted their ability.  Michael Jordan is a prime example.  If you will recall Michael Jordan’s Hall of Fame Induction speech, he spoke about people who aided in fueling his success.  He called it putting a log on the fire.   He had lots of people during the course of his life that added logs to his fire. 

Coach Godwill in his video, HATERS = MOTIVATORS speaks on the topic also.  He makes a great point in that there will always be people who will strive to put you down.  The key is how you respond.  Do you cave under the criticism, or do you use it to fuel your success?  You must be mentally tough to play sports.

In turning the criticism or pessimism into motivation that will fuel your success, you have to do one thing.  As Coach Godwill states start looking at things from the standpoint of “must do” vs. “should do”.   As an example, I must get in the gym and workout, verses I should get in the gym today to workout.  I must push myself during my workout.  When someone says that you aren’t a very good ball handler, how should you respond?  You should say to yourself, I must work on my ball handling to make sure my ball handling skills are strong.  Everything should be looked at from the standpoint of I “must do”.

All great athletes have something that motivates them to be the best that they can be.  If you have haters that are putting you down, and trying to get in your head, use them as your motivation.

Make your Haters Your Motivation! Be the best you can be.

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When Transferring High Schools can Backfire

 

You are a standout basketball player that has aspirations of playing Division I basketball.  The challenge is that the high school that you go to isn’t well known.  So you think about transferring into another one to get greater basketball exposure.    Unfortunately, I think this happens all across the country.  Kids selecting high schools for athlete purposes over academics, however that is a topic for another article.  This article is about transferring from a lesser known school, to another school to boost exposure.

Just last week a promising point guard Jaylon Tate announced that he was committing to the University of Illinois.  You may want to know what does this have to do with the topic.  Everything…Jaylon Tate is an outstanding point guard.  He began his high school career at St. Francis De Lasalle in Chicago.  A Catholic college prep high school located in Chicago. 

While at De Lasalle, Jaylon Tate played Varsity his first two years and was attracting recruiting attention from some high-majors, while being ranked as one of the top 150 players.  He then made the decision to transfer prior to his Junior year, to well known Simeon High School.  Simeon, a Chicago powerhouse, is known for producing top Division I basketball players.  Simeon is a four time State Champion, plays a national schedule, and produced Derrick Rose, Nick Anderson, and a laundry list of Division I players.  It is also the high school for two other top 100 basketball players, Jabari Parker and Kendrick Nunn.  It makes logical sense as to why a top point guard would want to transfer in to play at Simeon.  Playing at Simeon will help increase the interest among high majors, right?

Jaylon Tate transferred in and went from being the starting point guard at De Lasalle to the sixth man at Simeon.  His playing time was reduced, and as a result he fell off the radars of many high major programs.  The transfer was a move that hurt his recruiting status.  It appears the move which was thought to increase the interest in him, actually did the opposite.  Smith the head coach of Simeon is quoted by Scott Powers of ESPNChicago as saying…

"I think last year coming off the bench and not playing many minutes kind of knocked him out of the radar.”

The happy ending of the story, is that Jaylon was able to earn a scholarship to the University of Illinois.   He worked extremely hard to get himself recognized again.  He played extremely well in the State tournament which helped.  However, not everyone is going to be this fortunate.  Tate went from receiving interest from high majors, to only gaining the interest of mid-majors.

You may be saying, okay, mid-majors isn’t bad.  No, it’s not, but here is the point.  Here is a kid who while playing at a lesser known school his Freshman and Sophmore year was ranked among the top 150 players, and received interest from high majors.  Went to a more popular school, lost playing time, and fell to become  a mid-major prospect, and had to work back to earn the scholarship at a high major.

Think about how things would have been had he not transferred, and had spent his last season blossoming under the system that he had learned for two years.  Instead of having to learn a whole new system, and dealing with having to move up the depth chart.

I think that people hear about the happy endings of transfers, and do not realize that there is another side, that may not be as well publicized.  Parents and players, let this be a warning.  Transferring into a well known high school to boost your interest, may not be the best move.   What hurt Tate was playing time, having to come off the bench.  It is better to start on a lesser known team, then to be a reserve on a better team.

 

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